i lost all my friends

Pin on QuotesI [23F] I seem to have lost all my friends and I'm not sure why I [23F] I seem to have lost all my friends and I'm not sure why I've never been the kind of person who was "central" to a group of friends. I've always been the kind of person who had friends in multiple cliques, not a solid group of friends. As a result, I was always a bit of a stranger - close enough to be friends, but not close enough to be invited to their central events. I thought this was better at college. While I still had friends in many different groups, I was closer and invited more. However, since I graduated, I barely hear from any of them. They only invite me out of birthday, not their regular holidays or anything else. I've tried to get here, but they usually ignore me or "yes." We have to hang soon!" but when I try to make plans nothing comes from it. This has culminated in me staying at home most of the time, and I can go for whole days without getting a single text from anyone besides my parents. I've given up a lot at hand because I feel silly every time I do, like they're trying to let friendship fall down and I'm upset about not letting that happen. The thing is, I don't know why. I know that sometimes I can suck, but I've gotten much better and I haven't done most of my old habits with my college friends. I don't think it's that terrible, but it looks like nobody wants to be my friend. It's not that they actively dislike me, but only that no one likes enough to try to see me or want to make plans without my impulse. I'm not sure what to do. I feel like I'm saying something that everybody would say they're busy and they don't mean anything and they still like me, but I feel like everyone can't be so busy. Making new friends in my area is not really an option. I've lived here all my life and I know almost everyone. I'm looking for jobs, and some of them involve getting out of state. Part I feel like at this rate I could move 6 hours away and if I didn't say anything, no one would notice for months. I have no idea how to rectify this, or if I should. I didn't have a fight with any of these people recently or anything, so it's not that. I've been friends with all these people for at least two years, so if we didn't "say" I think we would have known. tl;dr - I feel like a friend of convenience for everyone, and no one is a true friend. Since college graduated almost all my friends have fallen off the radar except on their birthdays. I'm dealing with this a lot. I feel like once graduating everyone is more busy with real life and has no time to date people and choose and choose their close friends to stay in touch with. Even the people I was relatively close to in college... I haven't even spoken by message or text. Once you're not in the same place together sometimes you just stop talking. It's a shit I feel like I'm on the same boat as you. I feel like I don't have any friends. However, I found a couple of applications to find friends in. One is called "Hey! Vine is strictly feminine looking for friends in your area. It's not super popular so there might be a lot of people in it. Another one I used is "Bumble BFF" this is just the regular agitation app but when you register you choose BFF instead of leaving. And you'll see other women around you who are also looking for friends. Maybe this will help? Yeah, I already had the fir app, but I never used the bff option. I just changed it to that so we can see what's going on! Okay, this is happening to me too, and I'm 23. I really think it's a matter of finding people that their interests and values are aligned as well. I'm sorry, that sounds like I could be lonely. Just a possibility... have you developed or evolved so you need to know different types of people? As we age sometimes we have different types of friends, such as those who like to have fun or not, those who are positive or not sexual, those who embrace life "believe" or not. If you don't line up well, friendships can deteriorate. Do you have an appointment? I (F) ended up meeting some good friends through dating websites. Guys, I didn't want to go out, but we did good. Voluntary work or other interests can be a way of knowing new people. Besides, if you're not going to go out to bars, etc. finding older friends might be a good fit. I'm not sure it's really that we've changed, since I just graduated last year. I'm still looking for work while most of my friends have work, but I'm not out of contact with what that means. I don't expect them to go out or make plans on the nights of the week or stay late as we did at the university. Besides, I'm actively looking for a job, so it's not like they didn't know this. Everyone lives within an hour or so, so it's not like distance is a huge problem. Obviously not as convenient as we were at school, but not very crazy. I think those things could be good to meet people, but as I said in my post I've lived in this area for 20 years so I know almost all my age. I guess basically the kind of advice I'm looking for is people who have been this kind of friends - those who were never really an integral part of any group of friends, but more a friend of bonus to that group. How did you turn it over and change it? I've experienced the same thing right now. As others have said, people graduate, prioritize, and relationships die. I talk to college friends who used to see every day 3 times a year... I used to feel a little sad that I didn't have that feminine BFF in Hollywood movies or that all of my friends have fun without me when they take those pictures of the Instagram group, but the last time I hung up with them, they all looked at their phones and they seemed to barely be able to support the company of the others... People can be fake. Focus less on others and more on you. Corny, but do what you love, you develop, and people will begin to notice that and appreciate it more. Seize, do not take things personally, and find people who love you and love you. Whether you find a hobby, a job or a boyfriend, any of those things will expand your circle and you will also find that you have much less time too, so don't take things personally. Bumble BFF is also a good app. Yeah, I like what you said here. I think friends are hard to do especially after graduating from college and that's fine. I went through the same thing, but I also had adjustment problems when I moved into my hometown. If we focus on our own personal growth and do the things we love then the right people with similar interests will eventually appear. The man sounds like me in a key. I recently made friends through my work. But none of us are going to hang out. Just a dnd group that's funny don't misunderstand me! But idk is hard to find friends I feel that my personality is very open and fun. But I'm not changing myself to make friends. But I've always felt like she's strange sadly: / but don't stop waiting! Volunteer for things and maybe someone in that or your career will become a fantastic friend! You can only wait at least: Applause! I think it's just the natural human desire of the company. While I was in a relationship I didn't feel so strong about this, I definitely felt it. I want friends to call me and want to see me, and they want to listen to my day, that I can laugh and go forward, but that I can also resort to advice or when I feel alone. Having a bf doesn't replace any of that. I'd never be happy to have my bf. I would always want a life and friends out of it. I would never want someone to be my absolute everything, where if I lost them I wouldn't have anyone. Personally I don't think it's healthy. But if it works for you, whatever. You do. MembersOnline

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